How to be More Christ Like

07-30-08 02:38pm: -- How to Deal with Disappointments

When things in your life don't go the way you want them and disappointments come there are five imporant things we as Christians must do.
#1. Don't give into pity, depression, or discouragement:
Some of us by nature are more susceptible to depression and feel sorry for ourselves than others. The pity spirit is very harmful to our soul and brings with it depression and discouragement. As Christians we must refuse the spirit of self-pity, depression, and discouragement just like we would refuse sin.
#2. Go to prayer and ask God for help:
There is power in prayer. Power to over come the feels of self-pity, depression, and discouragement. I strongly suggest E.M. Bounds book on Power Through Prayer and also Purpose in Prayer. You can get Power Through Prayer and Purpose in Prayer in audio book form from Christian Audio. Also read over the section on prayer from How to be More Christ Like.
#3. Forget your problems by helping others:
Personally right now I am going through a time of heavy trials. I have just lost most of the Christians friends that I have made over the past 24 years due to being disfellowshipped by the congregation I attended. So what do I do? Wallow in self-pity? Give into depression and discouragement? No! Work for Jesus! Find those that have greater needs and problems than youself -- and that is every one that is not saved.
#4. Allow your trials to build endurance:
When we go thought trials and go thought them with victory this will bring endurance to our soul. Jas 1:3 "Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience." The Young's Literial Translation says endurance instead of patience. God allows us to go thought a life of trials in order for us to be ready for lives biggest trial -- death.
#5. Realize God is equipping you to help others:
When we have gone though trials we are equiped to help others go thought the same trials. 2Co 1:3,4 "Blessed is God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of the mercies, and God of all comfort, who is comforting us in all our tribulation, for our being able to comfort those in any tribulation through the comfort with which we are comforted ourselves by God."

07-30-08 02:38pm: -- Brochure Displays

I am looking at getting some brochure display units to put in stores in Aylmer, Tillsonburg, and St. Thomas. I have a number of booklets I would like to distribute and I would like to do a bi-monthly holiness newsletter using posts from this blog. Here are some displays I am looking at.

Acrylic Vertical Wall Mount Display:
Acrylic Vertical Wall Mount Display

Single Brochure Holder:
Single Brochure Holder

Cardboard Literature Display:
Cardboard Literature Display
*Note: and yes I contacted the firm that has the copyright on the display pic.

07-30-08 01:02pm: -- Booklet Maker

Akiles BookletMac Here is a good list of booklet makers. I like the Akiles BookletMac and am looking for a used one. This will fold a 11 x 8.5 sheet into a 8 page 4.25 x 5.5 tract and all you have to do is trim one edge and it will also fold a 17 x 11 sheet into a 16 page 4.25 x 5.5 tract. Also it will make 8.5 x 5.5 booklets and will handle up to 16 sheets for a 64 page booklet. And it not only folds them but also staples them!

07-30-08 12:02pm: -- Printer with a Duplexer for Booklet Making

HP LaserJet 2200dI found a nice HP LaserJet 2200d printer for sale in Barrie on Kijiji for $50. The owner kindly took it to the courier this morning and I will get it Friday by noon at the lastest with shipping costing $35 -- very good deal. This will give me lots of time to print my How To Be More Christ Like for street work on Friday evening in London. I had been using a HP LaserJet 2100 but it doesn't have a duplexer and when you turn over the pages to print the other side about every 10th page would stick and the process got very time comsuming.
I got a quote from Staples to print 1000 of the 12 page How To Be More Christ Like booklet and they wanted $530. Considering that the cost is about $50 I thought that was a bit to much and I am going to try my hand at printing them myself.
Here is a tip on how to search kijiji or other classified sites to find the products you want with out having to search each area. To search in Google for all the indexed pages from kijiji with the phrase lasterjet 2200 you search for laserjet 2200. This is good especially if you are willing to travel or have the product shipped to you.

07-30-08: -- Picked up 4 ChurchofGodRestoration Domains

Still waiting for the blog to be put up. I have decided against having the categories OTVC groups and church of god restoration on this More Christ Like blog as the domain will be listed on the back of all the booklets and tracts I am publishing. The issues I have with the Restoration is not something that I want to expose unbelievers or new Christians to.
I picked up the following domains and Lord willing I will be putting up a blog on one of the domains where I will be posting the letter that resulted in me being disfellowshipped from the Restoration. I also will be expanding on the 16 points that I am disagreement with the Restoration that I listed in the letter.
Here are the 4 domains I purchased.

07-25-08: -- More Christ Like Blog Announcement blog was started Friday July 25, 2008. The burden of the blog will be how to live a More Christ Like life.

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I Have taken the following article and printed it out in booklet form. It is an on going work and one I have been adding to it for over a year. It is a collection of spiritual principles that I have been learning in my personal Christian walk. I used to call the booklet "How to become spirital" but decided to change the title after some input from other Christians. I hope you will get some good for your soul from it.

How to be More Christ Like

Relationships - work to develop a personal relationship with God that is based on love (Joh 14:21); love God with all your heart and love your neighbor as yourself (Mar 12:30, 21), and do to others as you would want them to do to you (Luk 6:31); maintain a healthy fear of displeasing God (Mat 10:28); as you do unto others you are doing unto Christ (Mat 25:40).

Faith - you build faith by hearing the Word of God (Rom 10:17) and by praying in the Holy Spirit (Jud 1:20); it is by faith that you stand (2Cor 1:24; Rom 11:20), by faith that you have victory over the world (1Joh 5:4), by faith that you quench all the fiery darts of the wicked (Eph 6:16), and you are kept by the power of God from sin through faith (1Pet 1:5); by faith through prayer you have boldness and access with confidence (Eph 3:12) to the throne of God where you will find grace to help in time of need (Heb 4:16); the more time you spend in scriptures and prayer the more your faith will be built up and the more spiritual victory you will have.

Devotions - retire early and rise early (Luk 22:46); pray then read (1Tim 4:13), study (2Tim 2:15) and memorize scriptures; have a time of meditation, praise, singing of hymns, read from a devotional book, and review meeting notes for the past week; start with 30 minutes daily and advance to 1 or 2 hours; practice this day after day and you will be renewed and not faint (2Cor 4:16); the main spiritual lack most have is their devotional life, if you don't fix this lack you will never go anywhere but up and down in your spiritual experience. If you find yourself short of time for devotions in the morning then start retiring earlier and getting up earlier. To be spiritual you must start your day with proper devotions. Reading the scriptures and prayer will increase your faith (Rom 10:17, Jud 1:20); renew your spiritual life day by day (2Cor 4:16); redeem the time by finding times throughout your day to pray and read (Eph 5:16).

Prayer - pray first thing in the morning (Luk 22:46); as soon as you awake in the morning go to prayer and don't let the flesh, mind, or the devil get you distracted doing other things; fast and pray to gain victory in strong trials and temptations (Mat 17:21); pray for understanding on how to gain victory in the areas you are battling (Jam 1:5); the devil will be happy if you spend lots of time reading the Bible as long as he can keep you off your knees in prayer; pray in the Spirit (Eph 6:18); when possible pray out loud so your mind will not wander; pray as you go through your day (1The 5:17); prayer will empower you to resist temptation (Mar 14:28); pray for a holy hatred of all sin; when in prayer give time to listen to the voice of God; at the end of each day pray asking the Lord to examine your walk that day and give time to listen to Him and make any lacks He reveals a matter of prayer; prayer will increase your faith (Jud 1:20); remind yourself to pray by setting prayer alarms so you can get away with God for 15 minutes; members of the Methodist club committed to pray from 4am to 5am and 5pm to 6pm daily; anyone that starts their day with less that 30 minutes of prayer should not consider themselves spiritual; run and get a copy of Power Through Prayer by E.B. Bounds as quickly as you can and read it though 10 times.

Word of God - is able to build you up (Act 20:32); you are to meditate upon the Word of God (1Tim 4:15); the Word of God is a revealer (Heb 4:12); the Word of God is a spiritual sword (Eph 6:17); faith comes by hearing the Word of God (Rom 10:17).

Watching - watch and pray you don't enter into temptation (Mat 26:41); be careful with your interaction with those of the opposite gender (2Tim 2:22); watch daily for Christ's coming (1Joh 3:3); resist seeing, hearing, reading things, being in places, or being with people that lead you into temptation; examine your walk at the end of each day and make any lacks revealed a matter of prayer.

Witnessing - sharing the good news of Christ is part of your spiritual armor that you must have on to be able to stand (Eph 6:13, 15); point people to Christ not to yourself (2Cor 4:5); keep a supply of tracts and booklets for both unsaved and saved and have your Bible with you wherever you go; for the most part brothers should work with men and sisters should deal with women thus avoiding any traps the devil may try to set; take the name and address of those you have profitable discussions with and follow up with literature, visits if they are open to having you visit, and put them on your prayer list.

Speech - don't speak corrupt words but words that will edify (Eph 4:29); be careful to never use God's name in vain (Deu 5:11); don't use trashy or cool talk like the world does; those that are over talkative need to say less and those that are shy need to say more; be careful not to talk too much (Pro 17:28); put away all evil speaking (Eph 4:31); try not to be the center of all conversations but encourage others to be part of the conversation; realize that there are always two sides to every story you are told (Pro 18:13, 17); don't believe or repeat all that you are told (Pro 14:15); refuse to listen to or repeat gossip; don't discuss the failings and faults of others; try to steer conversations toward spiritual things; walk away from sinful conversations (Mat 12:37).

Meditation - mediate daily on the following. On the Word of God (1Tim 4:15); in the morning that this may be your last day; in the evening you may not awake up to a new day; that Christ may come today and call the world into judgment; that the unsaved you have been sharing Christ with may die today; that others will be watching your conduct today; on your need to live a life worthy of professing the name of Christ; on the areas in your life where you need the most spiritual help; on the love of God for your soul; on the price Christ paid to redeem you; on the sufferings of Christ on the cross; of the debt you owe God for saving your soul; of your love for the Savior; that all material blessings will be left here when you die; on the stewardship that you must give on that last day; on how to please the Savior; on where you would be without Christ; on all the victories God has given you; on the pains of hell; that you have an enemy that is trying to draw you back into the world.

Spiritual Fruit - memorize the following scriptures that list the fruit of the Spirit and mediate on them (Mat 5:3-9, 1Cor 13:4-7, 2Cor 7:11, Gal 5:22-23, Eph 4:2-3, Eph 5:9, Phil 4:8, Col 3:12-15, 1Tim 6:11-12, 2Tim 2:22, 2Pet 1:5-7); God has ordained that you bring forth fruit and that your fruit would remain (Jon 15:6); you cannot bear fruit by yourself but only by abiding in Christ (Joh 15:4, 5); you are given a measure of each spiritual fruit at conversion (Rom 12:3); you must be diligent to increase in the fruits of the Spirit (1Pet 1:5); list the fruits you lack the most and make a prayerful effort daily to increase by the grace of God; bringing forth good fruit will take spiritual work and patience (Luk 8:15); you must die to self and the flesh to bring forth fruit (Joh 12:24); God is glorified when you bring forth much fruit (Joh 15:8); if you are not increasing in fruit you have become spiritually blind (1Pet 1:9).

Revelation - God has enlighten every person that has ever lived (Joh 1:9; Tit 2:11); Jesus promised that after the Holy Spirit came on Pentecost that He would guide the disciples into all truth (Joh 16:13); God reveals His truth through God-called, God-equipped, holy living ministers that have the fruit of the Spirit in their lives (Eph 4:11-13, 2Tim 2:6); and taught them they must deny ungodliness and live righteously and godly by His grace while here in this world (Joh 1:9 Tit 2:11,12); the Holy Spirit will bring to remembrance the Word of God to believers (Joh 14:26).

Trials - don't think it strange that you will have trials (1Pet 4:12); trials will work patience in you (Jam 1:3); the day of trial and testing will reveal what your spiritual building is made of, when your spiritual building still abides after the trial or test you will be rewarded, when trials show you were building wrong, rejoice and start building right (1Cor 3:12); trials don't bring out the worst in you, they show what was there all along.

Temperance - in eating, sleeping, working, talking, and things you enjoy (Phil 4:5); mind the things of the Spirit not the pleasures of this world and your flesh (Rom 8:5); your spirit must rule over the flesh; they that live after self and the flesh will die spiritually (Rom 8:13).

Humility - have a proper attitude toward the weaknesses and failings you see in others and discuss them with God only; don't be proud about any abilities or understanding you have (Jam 4:6); if discussing your spiritual victories with others temper them with your needs and a request for prayer; shun the praise of men, love to be unknown, unseen, and seek God's favor not man's (Joh 5:44); love to be instructed (Pro 12:1); don't dress to be noticed; remember God will judge you the way you judge others (Mat 7:2); don't think more highly of yourself than you should (Rom 12:3); you should profess you are an unprofitable servant and you have only done that which was your duty (Luk 17:10); the more spiritual you become the less spiritual you will realize you are; the wisest people are those that know they know very little; when you realize you are weak then you are strong (2Cor 12:10); you are not capable of doing anything, any capacity you have comes from God (2Cor 3:5).

Stewardship - be a good steward of your body, time, money, material goods, desires, and thoughts (Rom 12:1); you are not your own and all you have is God's and is to be used for His glory (1Cor 6:19, 20).

Meetings - pray before meeting; read your Bible or a spiritual book or meditate on a hymn prayerfully while you are waiting for meeting to start; don't let your mind wander in meeting; record the scriptures and thoughts brought out in testimonies, exhortations, and preaching; review these scriptures daily in the following week; seek out those that are spiritual after meeting and have spiritual conversations.

Self Examination - list personality and spiritual weaknesses or lacks and seek grace to become strong in those areas (Mat 5:6; 2Cor 7:1; Phil 2:12); pray for understanding on which areas you should be working on and how to increase in those areas; you should know what your greatest need is and the top five areas that you need help in; routinely put your daily devotions to the top of your spiritual needs list and focus on getting up earlier, spending more time and using your devotional time more productively -- an increase in your devotional life will empower you to deal more efficiently with your other spiritual needs; you should examine your spiritual progress in prayer at the end of each day (2Cor 13:5).

Good works - be careful to maintain works (Tit 3:8); works are to be motivated by the love of God (1Cor 13:3); don't seek the praise or approval of man; do works as to the Lord and not to man (Eph 6:7).

Heart Experience - you must be careful that your practical living or heart experience is much further ahead than your knowledge or head experience. If you have more in your head than in your heart the head knowledge will tend to puff you up. If you are to be accused of forwarding or making any teaching a hobby then it must be heart holiness -- loving God with all your heart, and a soul burden for others -- loving your neighbor as yourself. The scriptures you memorize, the books you read, and the experience you testify of must be primarily one of heart holiness and a soul burden for others.

Fasting - the disciples of John fasted often and Christ's disciples are instructed to fast also (Mat 9:15); the primary reason to fast is self denial (Mar 8:34); fast and pray when in strong trials or temptations (Mat 17:21).

Pride - all that commit sin have a proud and haughty spirit (Pro 16:18); those that are proud are an abomination to God (Pro 16:5); those that are proud in heart will cause strife (Pro 28:25); the proud love the praise and recognition of men (Joh 12:43); where there is contention there is pride (Pro 13:10); God resists the proud but to the humble gives grace to help live holy (1Pet 5:5, Heb 4:16); you are commanded to humble yourself (Jam 4:10); the beginning of wisdom is to hate pride (Pro 8:13); it is not enough to hate pride in others but you must hate any pride you see in yourself.

Judging - you are to judge false preachers (Mat 7:15-17) and false professors by their fruit (Mar 4:7,18,19); the spiritual person judges all things by the Word (1Cor 2:15); hypocrites with a beam in their eye are not to judge those with a mote in their eye (Mat 7:5); God will judge you with the same measure as you judge others (Mat 7:2); as you do unto others you are doing unto Christ (Mat 25:40); when you see errors and faults in others and are inclined to judge them examine yourself to see if you have this same or similar error in your life and put the judgment on yourself; keep a mental list of your greatest spiritual blunders and mistakes and when you see errors in others consider how much worse your errors have been; remember it is easier to see errors in others than it is to see errors in yourself; there is little profit in judging others but great profit in judging yourself (1Cor 11:31); keep a mental list of the greatest sins you have committed and when you are tempted to judge the sins of others with contempt consider how wicked you were yourself before conversion (Tit 3:3); realize that things are not always as they seem and don't judge things before you know both sides of the what happened (Pro 18:13, 17); don't believe every report you hear and make wrong judgments (Pro 14:15); don't judge according to appearance (Joh 7:24); don't judge the motives of others as only God can see their heart; don't judge others by the light you have but by the light they have (Pro 17:15).

Spiritual Marks - victory over all sinning (1Joh 5:18); pure in heart (Mat 5:8, Act 15:8,9); loving God with all your heart and your neighbor as yourself (Mar 12:30,21); doing to others as you would have them do to you (Luk 6:31); strong prayer life and devotional life (Luk 18:1); carefulness in conduct (2Cor 7:11); humble in mind (Act 20:19), meek in spirit (1Cor 4:21); lowly in attitude (Eph 4:2); kind one to another (Eph 4:32); having sound speech (Tit 2:8); holy hatred of sin (Rom 12:9); not braggarts or boasters (2Tim 3:2); patient with the faults of others (1Cor 13:7); submissive one to another (1Pet 5:5); meek when correcting others (2Tim 2:25); spiritually minded (Rom 8:5,6); hungering and thirsting after more of God (Mat 5:6); increasing in the fruit of the Spirit (2Pet 1:8); not conformed to this world (Rom 12:2); victory over unlawful desires of the flesh, eyes, and mind (1Joh 2:16); prayerful throughout the day (Eph 6:18); forgiving towards one another (Eph 4:32); true love towards fellow believers (1Pet 1:22); serving others (Gal 6:10); do all things with love (1Cor 16:14); study the scriptures (2Tim 2:15); carry a burden for the lost; modesty in dress (1Tim 2:9); not critical but search for the good in others; watching for and earnestly desiring the return of Christ (2Pet 3:11); redeeming the time (Eph 5:16); always looking for places you may further please the Lord; mindful that you are only a breath away from eternity.

Conduct - you must stamp holiness unto God on all actions, attitudes, words spoken, thoughts, desires, clothing, and things you possess (Col 3:17).

Return of Christ - if you have this hope in your heart you will purify yourself (1Joh 3:3); your heart's desire must be even so, comes, Lord Jesus (Rev 22:20); you are to look for the coming of Christ (2Pet 3:11-14).

Disputes - as a child of God you are called to be a peacemaker (Mat 5:9); the servant of the Lord must not strive but be gentle and patient towards all people (2Tim 2:24); do unto others as you would have them do unto you (Luk 6:31); as you do unto others you are doing unto Christ (Mat 25:40); if you have a quarrel against any forgive them without requiring an apology and don't hold a grudge (Eph 4:32, Col 3:13); if you don't forgive others neither will God forgive you (Mar 11:26); be ready to forgive your brother seven times seventy (Mat 18:21,22); never render railing for railing (1Pet 3:9); follow after the things that make for peace (Rom 14:19); Christian love bears, believes, hopes and endures all things (1Cor 4:7); you are to endeavor to keep unity and peace (Eph 4:3); never make an accusation based on what someone else has told you but tell the other person what you heard and ask them if it is true (Pro 18:13,17); try to defuse a dispute before it starts; never feel like you have to win a dispute; when in a dispute don't use the authority you may have over the other person (husband, parent, teacher, employer, minister) to win the dispute but deal with the person as an equal; pray and remain calm and never raise your voice; give room for each other to talk, don't be interruptive, and make sure you understand the other person's position; when trying to solve a dispute take as much blame as you honestly can; don't make personal attacks or inflammatory or exaggerated statements; if you find yourself short on grace when in a dispute confess and excuse yourself and go and pray until you have victory; be willing to be misunderstood; if the other's conduct is below the Bible standard tell them that with love and if your conduct was below the Bible standard admit it and apologize; apologize that the dispute has happened even if you feel like you did nothing wrong; if the other person is unreasonable and gets upset ask for a break so you can go and pray; if your feelings were hurt go and pray, Jesus will give you help; some disputes will not be able to be resolved and all you can do is your best and leave the rest to Jesus; those that are proud in heart will cause strife (Pro 28:25); whenever there is strife and contentious disputes there is carnality and pride with at least one of the people (Pro 13:10, 1Cor 3:3); fools and sinners enjoy strife and quarrels and love to argue (Pro 17:19, Pro 20:3).

Thoughts - the mind is the battle ground (2Cor 10:3); Jesus knows your thoughts so be careful what you think (Luk 6:8); fix your thoughts on the things of God and not on earthly things (Phi 3:19); don't think of yourself highly (Rom 12:3); be careful to not speak whatever thoughts come to your mind (Pro 29:11); love God with all your mind (Mat 22:37); be transformed by the renewing of your mind (Rom 12:2); don't give your mind to think about the pleasure of the flesh (Rom 8:5); think on things that are true, honest, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtuous, and worthy of praise (Phi 4:8); you can through the power of God cast down imaginations and bring every thought into control (2Cor 10:4-5); memorize scriptures and meditate on them when you are presented with evil thoughts; (Heb 4:15); quote the Word of God to fight temptation of the mind (Mat 4:4); sin always starts in the mind (Jam 1:14).

Temptation - temptations are not sin as Christ was tempted but without sin (Heb 4:15); let him that thinks he stands take heed least he fall (1Cor 10:12); God has promised to keep you from evil (2The 3:3); to make a way of escape from every temptation (1Cor 10:13); keep you from falling into sin (Jud 1:24); if you are spiritually diligent you will never fall back into sin (2Pet 1:10); if you keep His Word He will keep you in the hour of temptation (Rev 3:10); you must resist seeing, hearing, reading things, being in places, or being with people that lead you into temptation.

Turning Back - let those that think they stand take heed lest they fall (1Cor 10:12); many that have felt they were strong and would never fall away have turned back (Mat 26:33); if you turn back on Jesus you will no longer be happy and blessed (Rom 4:7); you will be miserable (Rom 3:16); you will be in distress and agony (Rom 7:24); you will be deceived (Rom 7:11); you will be against Christ (Luk 11:23); you will regret denying Christ (Matt 27:5); you will go back to the things that you were once ashamed of (Rom 6:21); you may become possessed with devils (Act 8:7); you may lose your mind (Matt 4:24); you will find yourself at the trough of the pigs eating their food (Luk 15:16); you will be like a dog eating his vomit and a pig wallowing in the mire of excrement (2Pet 2:22); you will be good for nothing but to be cast out (Mat 5:13); you will no longer do the good you want to and will do the evil you don't want to do (Rom 7:19); you will quickly find that the pleasures in sin are only for a very short time (Heb 11:25); you will be overcome by many hurtful lusts (1Tim 6:9); you will soon lose all the benefits and blessing Christ gave you at Father's house (Luk 15:14); you will be responsible in causing others to turn back or to not make a start (Mat 12:30); you will no longer love Christ but will hate Him (Joh 14:24); you will be in bondage to sin (Joh 8:34); if you do come to your senses you will weep bitterly (Mat 26:75); your last state will be worse that your first state (Matt 12:45); you will be cast into outer darkness and shall weep (Mat 8:12); you will be cut down and cast into the fire (Mat 3:10); if you die in that state it would be better you were never born (Mat 26:24).

Grace - pledge daily to be spiritually violent (Mat 11:12); pray for power to resist temptations of the flesh, eyes and mind (1Cor 10:13, 2Pet 1:10); go often to prayer for grace to help in time of need (Heb 4:16).

Wisdom - wisdom is the ability to discern and exercise good judgment and is usually developed by experience; wisdom is the main thing (Pro 4:7); the fear of the Lord is the beginning for wisdom (Pro 9:10); a person of understanding has wisdom (Pro 10:23); it takes wisdom to win people to Christ (Pro 11:30); with the humble is wisdom (Pro 11:2); wisdom is better than gold (Pro 16:16); reproof gives wisdom (Pro 29:15); the wisdom of the world is foolishness to God (1Cor 3:19); in Christ are hid all the treasures of wisdom (Col 2:3); if any person lack wisdom let him ask God in faith and it will be given to him (Jam 1:5,6); the wisdom that is from God is pure, peaceful, gentle, easy to be entreated, merciful, full of good fruits, impartial and not phony (Jam 3:17).

Family - love your wife as yourself (Eph 5:28); love your wife as Christ loves the church and gave Himself for it (Eph 5:25); be subject to your husband in everything just as the church is subject unto Christ (Eph 5:24); submit to your husband as is fit in the Lord (Col 3:18), obey your parents in the Lord (Eph 6:1), nurturing your children (Eph 6:4); submit one to another (1Pet 5:50); be a servant one toward another (Gal 5:13); do unto others as you would have them do unto you (Luk 6:31); as you do unto others you are doing unto Christ (Mat 25:40); rejoice with each other in victories and console those that are going through difficulties (Rom 12:15); bring your children up in the way they should go (Pro 22:6); be patient with each other's weaknesses and faults in the same way you want others to be patient with yours; don't make a habit of pointing out each other's faults over and over but have love one toward another that will cover a multitude of faults; have family devotions in the morning and at the beginning of each evening; the best way to get your family devotions in order is to get your own personal devotions in order first; the family unit will only work well as long as each member is working in love to see what they can give, not to see what they can get; in your requests one of another don't be demanding but ask with love like you would ask someone outside the family unit; pray daily for each family member; husbands don't be overbearing and wives don't be nagging; deal with each other in respect.

Honesty - all unrepentant liars will be cast in the lake of fire (Rev 21:8); those that intentionally withhold facts and purposely leave others with an untrue impression are liars; those that say they know God and don't keep His commandments are liars (1Joh 1:6, 2:4); those that claim to be free from sin any other way than through Christ are liars (1Jon 1:3,8); those that say they have never sinned are liars (1Joh 1:10); those that say Jesus was not the Christ are liars (1Joh 2:22); those that say they love God when they hate others are liars (1Joh 4:20); there are no small or white lies, a lie is a lie (Jam 2:10); those that are not faithful in little things are not faithful in larger things (Luk 16:10); no one that lies is part of the holy Jerusalem (Rev 21:9,10,27).

Hate Sin - you are to hate the lives spotted with fleshly living (Jud 1:23); your love can wax cold if you don't keep a holy hatred for the sin that is abounding in the world (Mat 24:12).

Devotional Books - those that don't read devotional books on practical Christian living are at a disadvantage. Here is a list of quality books you should obtain and read regularly. Food for Lambs, The More Abundant Life, Heavenly Life for Earthly Living, How to Live a Holy Life, Helps to Holy Living, by Charles E Orr; The Imitation of Christ by Thomas a Kempis; A Serious Call to a Devout and Holy Life by William Law; Dying Testimonies of Saved and Unsaved by S.B. Shaw; Maxims of the Saints, Christian Counsel, Spiritual Letters by Bishop Fenelon, Power Through Prayer by E.M. Bounds.

True Conversion - to become spiritual you first must be truly converted. If you're living in disobedience to God (Eph 5:6) in any area in your life you need to be converted (Joh 14:24; 1Joh 2:3-4). There is no place for willful sin in the believer's experience (Rom 6:1,2). You experience true conversion by having godly sorrow for being offensive to God and for the sinfulness of your life (2Cor 7:10), repentance which is a change in attitude toward your past sinful life and a complete change and reforming of your life (Luke 13:3), the forsaking of all sin (Joh 5:14), believing in your heart on the merits of the death and resurrection of Jesus and in faith ask God for forgiveness of sins and believe by faith God has forgiven you (Rom 10:9; 1Joh 1:9; Act 4:12), and then go in the power of the Holy Spirit (1Cor 10:13; 2Pet 1:10; Jud 1:24) and sin no more (1Joh 5:18).

Old Covenant Law vs New Covenant Law Experience - the old covenant (the first 5 books of the Bible) is done away (2Cor 3:7,11), commanded to be cast out (Gal 4:24,30), has been fulfilled and passed (Mat 5:17,18, Luk 24:44, Act 13:29), was and still is faulty (Heb 8:7,8), has decayed and waxed old back in the first century (Heb 8:13), was added until Christ (Gal 3:19), we are no longer under (Gal 3:24,25,5:18; Rom 6:14), has been taken away (Heb 9:1,18,10:9), has ended (Rom 10:4), and was only until John (Luk 16:16); the old covenant was replaced with a better covenant (Heb 7:22) that has better promises (Heb 8:6), that has a better priesthood (Heb 7:12) with a better hope (Heb 7:19) we are now under the perfect law of liberty (Jas 1:25), the law of Christ (Gal 6:2) as is found in the new testament scriptures; the old covenant scriptures are still profitable for teaching, reproof, correction and instructions (2Tim 3:16) and offers us patience and comfort so we may have hope (Rom 15:4); the old covenant experience left the people in bondage to the law of sin and death (Rom 7:23) but the Spirit of life in Christ set the converted free from the law of sin (Rom 8:2) as the law was weak and couldn't deliver (Rom 8:3) and you now that are converted are freed from all the things which you couldn't be freed from under the law (Act 13:39).

What is Sin - faults, lacks in social deportment that may be offensive, and mistakes in opinion, judgment, and actions are not sins unless they include a voluntary act of disobedience against a known commandment of God (1Joh 3:4; 5:17). What may be sin for one person may not be sin for another due to difference in light and understanding of what God requires (Rom 14:22,23; Joh 9:41; Jam 4:17; Rom 3:20; 5:13). The position that mistakes are sin and therefore all believers are sinners will tend to lead people to the conclusion that willful acts of disobedience are compatible with salvation. As the scriptures are very clear that whoever is born of God doesn't sin (1John 2:3,4; 5:18) this view is not only unscriptural but harmful as it will weaken the believers resolve to resist all willful acts of disobedience.

Sin-you-must Scriptures Explained - provided here is a brief explanation of a number of scriptures that seem to imply that believers are not delivered from all sinning and that as long as they live they must sin. Rom 7:13-15 - Paul is describing the experience under the law when he was bondage to the law of sin and he did the evil he didn't want to do. In chapter eight he explains that Christ set him free for the law of sin as the law could not do this. 1Jon 1:8 - John is here referring to those in verse three that don't have fellowship with the Father and explains that those who claim they have no sin any other way than having fellowship with the Father and Son are liars. He goes on to clearly state in chapter two, three, and five that whoever is born of God doesn't sin. 1Tim 1:15 - Paul here is stating that due to his actions as a blasphemer, persecutor, and injurious toward the believers before his conversation that he felt he was a chief sinner. This clearly was not his current experience but he was discussing his past experience. 1Kin 8:46; 2Chr 6:36; Pro 20:9; Pro 24:16 - under the old covenant the blood of bulls and goats couldn't deliver from the power of sin. It is only by the merits of the blood of Christ that believers can live a life free from sinning.

Unbiblical Teachings - here is a list of a number of Unbiblical teachings that are accepted in many denominations.

Sin-you-must - teaches you will continue to sin after being saved and that a believer sins in word, thought, and deed daily -- this teaching makes people easy prey to temptations and leaves them thinking that sin in a believer's life is normal.

Easy-Believism - teaches that godly sorrow, repentance, and obedience to Christ are not necessary but all you must do is believe -- this teaching can have people that are only under conviction thinking they are saved.

Eternal Security - teaches once saved if you go back to your old life and live and die in sin you will still go to heaven -- this teaching gives a false sense of security and can work a carelessness in how you deal with temptations.

Unconditional Election - teaches God preordained before the world who would be saved and that those who are not preordained have no chance to be saved -- this teaching will leave the saved with a false sense of security and the unsaved with no hope that they can do anything about their unsaved state.

Pentecostalism - teaches that a prayer language called tongues is the evidence of having experienced a higher spiritual experience after conversation called the baptism of the Holy Spirit - this teaching will leave a person trusting in an external manifestation that is experienced in unorthodoxed groups like the Mormons as evidence of conversion and a higher spiritual experience.

Baptismal Regeneration - teaches you are saved when you are baptized and you can't be saved without water baptism -- this teaching can cause people to trust in baptism as proof of salvation and can leave those that have been converted but not baptized doubting their conversion.

Mistakes-are-sin - teaches that mistakes in opinion, judgments, and actions; and faults, errors, and any conduct that comes short of complete angelic perfection is unwillful sin and that there is no difference between what some are calling unwillful sins and willful sins -- this teaching makes no difference between mistakes and sins; this leads the Christian to confess they are a sinner and opens them up to the Unbiblical teaching of sin-you-must with the excuse we are all human and can't help but sin.